Back-to-School Tip #1: Communication is the key to navigating changes
It’s safe to say 2020 has been one of the strangest years in our kids’ lives — their school year shifted abruptly in March, their parents became their teachers, and then everything that requires pants was canceled! They can’t see their friends, they have to wear masks when they leave the house, and now plans and difficult decisions are being made about the new school year. Adults are struggling to cope with all these events, so you can be sure that kids are having a hard time too. But they don’t necessarily tell us that with words — they show us with their behaviors. Whining, crying, clingy behavior, trouble falling asleep, reduced or increased appetite, outbursts, and other behavioral concerns are all possible indicators that kids are having a hard time with changes in their lives. Hopefully, for all of us, things will start to settle down and return to something closer to normal soon. But talking with your kids about what is happening is the most important thing you can do to help them through the tough stuff. That sounds easier than it is, so here are some tips for getting started.