Breast Cancer Awareness Month: Sara’s Story

On May 28, 2021, Sara Bak­er came to Quin­cy Med­ical Group (QMG) for a fol­low-up mam­mo­gram. She looked at the vis­it as rou­tine until she got some unex­pect­ed news.

After her mam­mo­gram, she had an ultra­sound. When the radi­ol­o­gist came in to share the results, he told her she would need a biop­sy. The results indi­cat­ed she had aggres­sive inva­sive duc­tal carcinoma.

I didn’t know yet exact­ly what he meant, but the words aggres­sive’ and inva­sive’ were daunt­ing. Shocked, upset, scared & shak­ing, I said to Mary Jef­fries, the ultra­sono­g­ra­ph­er, I think he just told me I have breast cancer.’”

Jef­fries helped calm her and got her biop­sy sched­uled and walked her out to the wait­ing room.

I don’t remem­ber dri­ving home that day,” Bak­er said.

On June 3, 2021, her hus­band, Deon, came with her to her biop­sy appoint­ment where she met with QMG Radi­ol­o­gist Dr. Debra Oden. Ner­vous, Bak­er felt com­fort­ed immediately.

Thank­ful­ly, the famil­iar & friend­ly face of Mary Jef­fries greet­ed me again as she was assist­ing Dr. Oden with the biop­sy,” Bak­er recalled. For what­ev­er rea­son, I was ter­ri­fied to have this pro­ce­dure but when it was all said and done, it was the sim­plest of pro­ce­dures. Mary and Dr. Oden laughed and chat­ted with me the whole time to keep my thoughts oth­er­wise engaged.”

Lat­er that week, Baker’s diag­no­sis was con­firmed – Inva­sive Duc­tal Car­ci­no­ma Stage 1, Grade 2. The next day, she saw QMG Sur­geon Dr. Chris­t­ian Zwick to review the find­ing and to sched­ule a lumpectomy.

Dr. Zwick cov­ered what he would be doing dur­ing the surgery. Deon and I asked a ton of ques­tions which he patient­ly and thor­ough­ly answered. Weeks lat­er, when I found out I had to do chemother­a­py, Dr. Zwick also put my port in. I was relieved he does port pro­ce­dures b/​c in my opin­ion; Dr. Zwick encom­pass­es every­thing you look for in a doc­tor. He’s com­pe­tent, con­fi­dent & com­pas­sion­ate. We knew I was in good hands. I had zero con­cerns about either pro­ce­dure which is a big state­ment.” she said.

Sara’s lumpec­to­my was sched­uled for the morn­ing of June 22, 2021. She was home by ear­ly afternoon.

Dr. Zwick called a cou­ple hours after I’d got­ten home to let me know that the mar­gins around the mass were clear of can­cer cells and that I did not have any lymph node involve­ment. We were elat­ed with this news & appre­cia­tive he took the time to reach out so quick­ly,” she shared. Recov­ery from this pro­ce­dure was sur­pris­ing­ly unpainful. I only need­ed med­ica­tion for com­fort the day of the surgery and that was all.”

Her next step was to meet with the Oncol­o­gy team at the QMG Can­cer Insti­tute where she with QMG Radi­a­tion Oncol­o­gist Dr. Michael Fal­lon and QMG Oncol­o­gist Dr. M. Amjad Ali.

Deon and I met with Dr. Fal­lon. What a cool guy. I think our ini­tial con­sult was to be 30 min­utes, but he was with us well over an hour cov­er­ing the process of radi­a­tion treat­ment & what to expect. He dumb­ed down’ the med­ical jar­gon so we could eas­i­ly under­stand every­thing. He was kind, patient, and thor­ough,” she said.

Lat­er that day, Sara and Deon met with Dr. Ali who shared with them a detailed expla­na­tion of options and recommendations.

When we left Dr. Ali’s office that day, we were over­whelmed, but appre­cia­tive of his in-depth expla­na­tion. The treat­ment plan was start­ing to come together.”

Pri­or to treat­ment, Dr. Ali want­ed Sara to do genet­ic test­ing to see if chemother­a­py would be the best treat­ment option.

As they wait­ed for the results, Sara and Deon prayed the results would indi­cate that she would not need chemotherapy.

We weren’t that lucky,” Sara said. Chemother­a­py was rec­om­mend­ed & we were dev­as­tat­ed. Still, though, we knew and were told that I didn’t absolute­ly have to do chemother­a­py, I could refuse. We knew the chances of the can­cer return­ing were sig­nif­i­cant­ly low­ered just by hav­ing the lumpec­to­my, radi­a­tion, and hor­mone ther­a­py. I decid­ed not to under­go chemotherapy.”

Sara ques­tioned her deci­sion. The thought of chemother­a­py scared her, but she didn’t want fear to stop her from mak­ing the best long-term deci­sion. She spoke with QMG Oncol­o­gy Nav­i­ga­tion Coor­di­na­tor Hol­ly Mey­er about her fears and talked through all the what ifs.”

Ulti­mate­ly, Hol­ly asked if I would live in fear of the can­cer return­ing if I did not do chemother­a­py or if I would rest easy with the deci­sion to not take chemo. Clear­ly, already wor­ry­ing about my deci­sion, I knew the answer to that.”

After address­ing her con­cerns, Mey­er gave Sara a tour of the infu­sion room.

By the time I left, my anx­i­ety lev­el had dropped, and I was at peace with the deci­sion to include chemother­a­py as part of my jour­ney,” she said.

Her first chemother­a­py treat­ment was on August 11, 2021.

Deon and I were shocked at how absurd­ly upbeat the infu­sion cen­ter is. The nurs­es there cul­ti­vate a cul­ture of pos­i­tiv­i­ty which com­plete­ly con­tra­dicts what we’d antic­i­pat­ed. My mom has also tak­en me to a treat­ment and agrees aura there is enjoy­ably opti­mistic. We all know that nurs­ing takes a spe­cial per­son but being in a can­cer cen­ter and being able to turn it into a pos­i­tive atmos­phere, that’s mind-blow­ing. No doom or gloom here.”

Reflect­ing on her can­cer jour­ney so far, Sara said the hard­est part has been telling her fam­i­ly, espe­cial­ly her par­ents, about her diagnosis.

When this all start­ed, we were in a sea­son of cel­e­bra­tions. Our son was grad­u­at­ing high school. Our daugh­ter & son-in-law were expect­ing their first baby. Deon and I were gid­dy about being first-time grand­par­ents. Every­body was just so hap­py, and I had this dark hov­er­ing cloud. Hav­ing to share my diag­no­sis was tough,” she recalled.

Through the dif­fi­cult times these past few months, Sara said she knows she is one of the lucky ones, and her spir­its have been lift­ed by the team at the QMG Can­cer Institute.

To me, these peo­ple are impor­tant in my jour­ney. Their kind­ness has left an impres­sion on me that I’ll always remem­ber. They are pro­fes­sion­als who do this every day but I’m a real-life per­son who is deal­ing with this,” Sara said. Their kind­ness makes it eas­i­er. They’ve just been across the board awe­some­ness. From the hel­lo at the front door I get from Michelle at the recep­tion desk, who greets me by name before I even get up to the desk, to Mar­sha, the rock star phle­botomist, who puts warm water in gloves to help coax my stub­born veins into pop­ping up. I mean, I just can­not say enough about the care I’ve received.”

For oth­ers who may have delayed their well­ness appoint­ment or mam­mo­grams, her advice is to make and keep those appointments.

Your providers can’t force you to come, you’re the only per­son who can keep your­self account­able. Women, please get screened. I have been blown away by the num­ber of women I’ve talked to who have nev­er had a mam­mo­gram. Had that been me, it would have only been a mat­ter of time until I’d have been knock­ing on death’s door. As dra­mat­ic as that sounds, it’s the truth. Please advo­cate for your health.”

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