Author Shares Lessons Learned from Cancer Journey

In 2002, Erin Arbab­ha-Pre­sut­ti was diag­nosed with Stage II breast can­cer. In the days, weeks, months, and years fol­low­ing her diag­no­sis, she under­went sev­er­al life-chang­ing surg­eries and endured inten­sive treatment.

Although 19 years have passed, the impact of the diag­no­sis is last­ing. She now uses her expe­ri­ence and sto­ry to help oth­ers and wrote a book titled, I Have Sur­vived.

Erin recent­ly moved to Quin­cy with her hus­band, Quin­cy Med­ical Group (QMG) Fam­i­ly Prac­tice Physi­cian, Dr. Cris­t­ian J. Pre­sut­ti. She hopes to make an impact in her new community.

Her jour­ney began back in August of 2001 when she felt some breast pain. She was due for her annu­al mam­mo­gram in Feb­ru­ary 2002, so decid­ed to wait for her check-up to bring up her con­cerns to her physician.

When I went for my rou­tine mam­mo­gram, they found a spot and fol­lowed up with an ultra­sound. They thought that it was 95 per­cent like­ly to be a cal­ci­fi­ca­tion. Noth­ing to wor­ry about, but they still want­ed to do a biopsy.”

The results of her two biop­sies found can­cer that had spread through­out her left breast and lymph nodes. She sought a sec­ond opin­ion at Mayo Clin­ic, where they con­firmed her diag­no­sis and imme­di­ate­ly per­formed a dou­ble mas­tec­to­my. She went back to Flori­da, where she was liv­ing at the time, to com­plete six months of aggres­sive chemother­a­py fol­lowed by mul­ti­ple recon­struc­tive surg­eries over a span of sev­er­al years.

Her diag­no­sis and treat­ment not only affect­ed her phys­i­cal­ly but also impact­ed her emo­tion­al­ly and spir­i­tu­al­ly. She was work­ing full time and was bal­anc­ing the demands of her busy career, along with the weight of a can­cer diagnosis.

Through­out it all, she received an abun­dance of sup­port from her fam­i­ly, friends, and employ­er. She also sought out books for guid­ance but was unable to find one that she could relate to. That’s when she decid­ed to write her own.

I was sin­gle at the time, and I was liv­ing alone. It was very chal­leng­ing to have to deal with some­thing like this. I learned a lot and I want­ed to share the lessons with every­one, not just with patients.”

Her book includes sec­tions for doc­tors, employ­ers, friends, fam­i­ly, and care­givers. The book is insight­ful, infor­ma­tive, and inspi­ra­tional. It tells of not only the pain, loss and suf­fer­ing of can­cer, but also of ways to cope and pos­i­tive life changes.

The book is like a diary of my experience.”

Pri­or to her diag­no­sis, Erin was an active sup­port­er of the Susan G. Komen Foun­da­tion. The cause has been one close to her heart.

I’ve always been active with the Komen Foun­da­tion because my father’s sis­ter died from breast can­cer when she was only 40 years old. I always did fundrais­ing in her hon­or,” she shared. After my diag­no­sis, I con­tin­ued to do more fundrais­ing because I want­ed to give back.”.

Erin was named one of the top fundrais­ers in South Flori­da for the Komen Foun­da­tion and was named an hon­orary chair, rep­re­sent­ing her com­pa­ny, Flori­da Pow­er and Light. Her book was endorsed by Nan­cy Brinker, the founder of the Komen Foun­da­tion and sis­ter of the late Susan G. Komen. Erin has also been involved with fundrais­ing for the Amer­i­can Can­cer Soci­ety and the Unit­ed Way.

I Have Sur­vived,” Erin adds,” is for any­one who has been touched by can­cer. Just about every­body knows some­one who has or has had can­cer, so this book is for every­one. It’s about care­giv­ing. It’s about compassion.”

Erin has also been trained as a life coach through the Uni­ver­si­ty of Mia­mi. She hopes she can help sup­port patients and care­givers in her new community.

By shar­ing my sto­ry and help­ing oth­ers, it’s very heal­ing and reju­ve­nat­ing for me. I feel like I’m giv­ing back and mak­ing a difference.”

I Have Sur­vived is avail­able on Ama­zon and is now avail­able at the Quin­cy Uni­ver­si­ty Library.

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